Why "Folly"
I have the Webster's definition above. And initially the 19th century English architectural reference is what led me to think of calling my house a folly. In my mind I think of folly as frivolousness and indulgence of every whim. I guess it's my way of acknowledging that I realize this house I'm building is beyond what's necessary for me at my age/stage in life--it's my folly. And to give my house any other name would seem pretentious--I can't take myself that seriously. At this point I've brought my house activities up to date. For what it's worth, here's where I am on a personal level. My Chapter 3 was the major life change I made—leaving the area I’d lived for most of my life, my friends from over 40 years, a home I loved, and my very contented lifestyle—for the unknown. Besides the obvious of moving near my daughter and her family, and being closer to my parents, it even surprised me that I was willing to leave my routine and comfort...