Portland & Housekeeping

I don't know if I mentioned that I was actually born in Portland. My mom was born in Seattle and grew up in Portland. I did the opposite. But the point is, I am a "native" Portlander! So, when I tell people I moved up from California a couple years ago, and I sense an under-their-breath groan, "More of those Californians invading Oregon...," I immediately set them straight: "Hey! I'm a native!" After three years living here, and now getting settled in my new home, I'd say my roots are finally established. I can honestly say I love Oregon and I feel like I belong here. I love the green background and the more relaxed lifestyle. And I like being out in the country. People ask if I'm ever afraid to be living alone out here--the answer is no. I have very attentive neighbors, we live on a gated lane, and it's basically a very safe community. And I've lived alone quite a while now. Aside... I moved to San Francisco with a girlf...